“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” – Jeremiah 31:3
One of the greatest feelings in the world is knowing that someone loves you or is “in love” with you. I remember the first time the man, who is now my ex-husband, told me he loved me. It actually scared me. Love is so powerful. There have been many books written on it, songs written about it. People become crazy over it and do things they wouldn’t normally do. I believe God created us to need love, because He is love!!! And we need God!!
I remember growing up, I knew my family loved me. They didn’t vocalize it a lot, but I just knew it. I guess by the things they did. Love is a verb after all. But even so, I still felt uncomfortable with myself and felt I did not measure up in the world around me. It was an empty and cold feeling inside. I tried to fill that with many things of this world. None of them could satisfy!! Unfortunately, some of us women think that offering sex will get a man to love us only to find out it leaves us feeling used and betrayed.
Because I have felt uncomfortable with myself and then used and betrayed, I became very guarded with my feelings. I wasn’t about to let just anyone trample on my heart! The day came when I did have a relationship with a man whom I fell in love with. I couldn’t help it. He told me he loved me too. Our love grew and we got married. We had our problems, but I truly loved him!
I cannot describe the pain that comes with having your heart ripped and shredded. Love bites!!! Yes It Does – with sharp fangs!!! That rejection, when he gives himself to someone else, is heart wrenching. When he tells you, the best thing is to get a divorce. It was as if he gave up……
The questions that come with that is what in the world did I do wrong???
Even though my divorce was final a year ago, the tears still come if I think too deeply about it.
Ever since I was a child, I was taught that Jesus Loves Me. Yes, I knew that He gave his life for me. The sacrifice He endured on the cross. Just for me. I am so grateful for that. But since I have been alone, I am developing a closer walk with Him. And this is something He wants me to know……..”I HAVE LOVED YOU WITH AN EVERLASTING LOVE; I HAVE DRAWN YOU WITH UNFAILING KINDNESS!!!” He knows my name!! He knows exactly what I need. He knows my self worth could be boosted. He knows my identity needs to be in Him – a child of the One True King!!! He knows me inside and out!!
This past summer I decided to volunteer my time at Senior High Camp that my church was associated with. I was a camp counselor. I had 12 girls in my room. They were a lot of fun and I was able to interact with them and share with them some of my story. They shared with me also. I was able to pray with them and help them in any way I could. It was extremely rewarding. This was very healing for me!!! They had 2 services a day and a group of Christian college students provided the worship music for the whole week. One of the songs they sang was Reckless Love by Cory Asbury. I had heard the song before, but it was during this time that I really listened to the words. They penetrated right through me. God was speaking His love to me. He knew how much I needed that!! He continues to show me His love. He has His strong arm around me guiding me through life. If I stumble, He picks me up. It is the ONLY love that satisfies my soul!
One thing I have learned in this life…….People will fail you, but God NEVER will!!!
The lyrics to Reckless Love….
Before I spoke a word
You were singing over me
You have been so, so
Good to me
Before I took a breath
You breathed Your life in me
You have been so, so
Kind to me
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God
Oh, it chases me down, fights ’til I’m found, leaves the ninety-nine
And I couldn’t earn it
And I don’t deserve it
Still You give yourself away
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God
When I was your foe, still Your love fought for me
You have been so, so
Good to me, yeah
When I felt no worth
You paid it all for me, yes you did
You have been so, so
Kind to me
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God
Oh, it chases me down, fights ’til I’m found, leaves the ninety-nine
And I couldn’t earn it
And I don’t deserve it
Still You give yourself away
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God
I feel it this morning
I feel it this morning
Your love is all around me, ooh oh
There’s no shadow You won’t light up
Mountain You won’t climb up
Coming after me
There’s no wall You won’t kick down
No lie You won’t tear down
Coming after me
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God, oh
Oh, it chases me down, fights ’til I’m found, leaves the ninety-nine
And I couldn’t earn it
And I don’t deserve it
Still You give yourself away
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God, ooh oh yeah
I feel confidence rising in the room
But you notice how deep he loves
You would stop at nothing, you would stop at nothing, no, no, no, no
You’re relentless
There’s no shadow
There’s no shadow You won’t light up
Mountain You won’t climb up
Coming after me
There’s no wall You won’t kick down
Lie You won’t tear down
Coming after me
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God, oh
Oh, it chases me down, fights ’til I’m found, leaves the ninety-nine
And I couldn’t earn it
And I don’t deserve it
Still You give yourself away
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God
Blessings!